Where Real Brothers Walk with You!

When The Rest of the World Walks On You!


Sean C

I really appreciate spending time each week with my brothers in the Band of Brothers. I finally found a home where I can be open and express myself

Randy H

This group helps me be gentler with myself - not so demanding. They encourage me to pursue my passions in a healthy and supportive way.

J. Anthony Fernando

I recommend Band of Brothers to any man who is wanting more out of life. hearing other men talk about their experiences, successes and failures was very important to my perception of how I show up in my life.

Do you ever catch yourself wondering...

I have made progress in my life so why do I feel jaded?

I have a good life and would like to see it get even better

I have tried to make changes to my life and it never seems to stick

I don’t know what I believe in anymore. I need help in figuring this out

Some parts of my life are amazing but it’s costing me …


What if there was a place where you could go knowing someone had your back!

What if this space provided the safety for you to truly open up about what is going on in your life?

What if in that place you knew there’d be NO judgment just support and truth!

And, what if this place existed only for men?

Would that be somewhere you would want to go?

Welcome to Band of Brothers! You're in the right Place.

My name is Alain Dumonceaux and I help men like you learn to be conscious men, reclaim your mojo while remaining centered and grounded. No ego, just being!

What is this thing called
Band of Brothers?

Facilitated weekly fellowship and discussion.  Topics are broken into 5 pillars each focused on a specific theme.

Reading material, thought-provoking questions and assignments provided for each meeting.

Personal assessments and action plans.

It is recommended that you purchase this book.  It is a foundational book we frequently reference. Full disclosure this link does provide a small income that supports this website.

The 5 Pillars of Man

Topics are broken up into 5 modules.

Module 1 - Living a Purposeful Life 

Module 2 - The Man Box - Creating a New Identity 

Module 3 - The Psychology of Connections

Module 4 - The Precepts - The Guide Posts For Living a Purposeful Life

Module 5 - Marriage Success - Creating a Space For Two

Together we have over 50 topics that 

profoundly shape who we are as men. 

Here's What You Will Walk Away With...

Build a personal philosophy that defines you.

Build a life centered around the things that matter most to YOU!

Discover your core values and beliefs and how they have shaped your life for better or worse.

How to build strong and healthy relationships with yourself and others.

Learn to communicate in a way to promote successful relationships.

One Last Thing...

Ok, so you’ve made it this far and you're probably thinking, “I don’t have the time for this right now?” So, let me ask you something… 


If you continue to put off taking action (responsibility) and hiding behind the same excuses you’ve used for years at what point will it be too much to bear! 


Don't let a life-changing event happen before you finally make the time to get your life back on track.


Isn't it time to make a different choice?

 "Beware the lollipop of mediocrity. One lick and you suck forever!" -  Brian Wilson

Gentlemen, what we tend to forget is a life that looks good on the outside is meaningless if it doesn’t feel good inside too. There are only two choices:

  • Decide to do the deep internal work that is required for you to live your best life.  OR

  • Suffer in silence no matter how many achievements you gain. 

You've read this entire page for a reason – you need this in your life.

Don’t waste this opportunity and sign up for the webinar and/or the in-person event.


Find out everything we are up to inside. Our content ranges from vlogs to articles, podcasts, and so much more.  See you on the other side!


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